The cure for cold feet? The drama continues...

Anyone know the cure for cold feet? Just as things were starting to move forward with adoption, J pulls a fast one...cold feet, nerves, frustration. I have made our Dr.'s appointments for our physicals, contacted the agency - they are waiting for our application and fee to get started. (I decided to use Families for Children. J has some stress with Stone Mountain - I just need to slow down a bit...if it supposed to happen it will...I hope his cold feet thaw fast!